Inspired by a El Dia de los Muertos Street Festival last year that I wrote about, I have created an altar(ofrenda) in my home. These altars are to remember and honor the dead. November 1 is All Saints Day and November 2 is All Souls Day. The Day of the Dead is celebrated November 2 although some seem to combine the two days.
Day of the Dead –
Paths of flower petals and
burning incense guide
spirits to the house of the living.
Tables with favorite food and drink.
orange and yellow flowers,
all offered to the spirits.
Then the living go to
graves of the dead.
Custom says ill fortune, illness
death or worse
may befall
those who make no offerings.
Who will decorate my grave?
Who will bring me food?
Who will talk to me?
No one.
Cremation may be best f or me.
JH
Nov. 2016
Below is a closer look at my orfenda The pocket knife is for my father; the clip earrings for my mother; the wine bottle for another relative; the carnations for a friend; matches with Mexican Loteria characters for those that loved to gamble; sage for cleansing. I needed marigolds! Maybe next year.
MAY THEIR SOULS FIND THEIR WAY TO MY ORFENDA EVEN IF ONLY IN MY HEART.
Love your Altar Jo.. and I often light a candle in remembrance. and although my altar is not specifically for this occasion. I know those whose names we utter, they feel our hearts..
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Loved that you shared your altar with us.. xxx ❤
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Yes, I hope they feel my heart. Part of me was reluctant to share but then it became important and I needed to share. So glad you understood!
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Yes I so understand.. and regularly send healing at mine.. xx
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What a beautiful ‘ceremony’ in a way — an honoring of the dead, of those who once lived and who are still in our hearts and souls.
When I was young (pre-teen) I set up my own altar in my room. I didn’t know why – I just had to do it. My parents were a bit worried about me. I kneeled in front of it for about half an hour a day, not praying to anything or anyone, but just …. I don’t know…. feeling. Perhaps it was a precursor to meditating, which I’d never heard of at that time. An altar is a symbol of our spirt giving homage I think – to the world, the earth, to others, and to ourselves.
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Oh, thank you so much for sharing your younger experience. I love your explanation of an altar where we give homage to the world, earth others and ourselves. And for me it is a recognition of the mystery of life and the world. I grew up Baptist (don’t practice now) but always loved visiting Catholic churches were there were so many symbols and rituals. And I grew up visiting cemeteries with my mother and still visit relatives’ graves when I can. An altar makes it convenient to focus on the departed for a couple of days. Your visits and comments are always special! Thank you!
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Beautiful altar, Jo. You will be blessed.
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Thanks, John. I just started reading your “Circumstances of Childhood” last night. Will be reading again tonight. Hard to put it down. Mysteries prevail!!!!
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Thank you, Jo. I hope you enjoy it. 🙂
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What a lovely orfenda! My husband and I will be attending the local Dia de los Muertos celebration this evening… perhaps I’ll pick up a few items for my alter. As far as the dates of Dia de los Muertos celebrations are concerned, my understanding is that at midnight on October 31, the souls of all deceased children come down from heaven and reunite with their families (November 1st), and the souls of deceased adults visit on November 2.
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Yes, that is what I have been reading also as the days sort of blend. There was a festival for it here last weekend. I hope to add to my altar for next year. Thanks for sharing and confirming what I have read.
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A Mexican friend told me just a couple of days ago that they always include water and salt at their altar, too. It’s a long journey, after all, and the departed might get thirsty as they travel! I’m hoping to have time to get down to Galveston tomorrow and see the altars at the Broadway cemeteries. It’s such a wonderful tradition, and in some ways not unlike what we used to do at Memorial Day: cleaning the graves, putting out flowers, and sometimes even having picnics there. Some impulses are human at their heart — they only take different forms in different cultures.
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Water and salt make sense. I would love to see the altars at Broadway cemeteries too. So many people these days do not visit cemeteries or take flowers. Yes, we choose different ways to follow our hearts when acknowledging loss and death, something we all share as humans. I hope you get down to Galveston!
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Nicely done.
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Thank you, Maverick!
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What a great way to honor such a tradition and to also remember those you have lost. It was lovely that you shared it with all of us. I used to go to some neat Dias DE Los Muertos events in Houston. I miss that.
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Last year was the first time I had been to a Day of the Dead festival locally. It was even bigger this year and the altars were set up in an old movie theater. It exposes many people to the culture and tradition. I am sure Houston’s was impressive. Thanks for stopping by!
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I enjoyed stopping by very much, Jo. I hope you have a wonderful November!
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I enjoyed learning about your tradition, Jo! I like what you say about honoring them into your heart xx
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As a child my mother took me to cemeteries in East Texas so it seems natural to visit. This is the first time I have created an altar but I may do it next year also. It seems a way to honor all those that are gone and remember them even if I cannot go to the cemetery where they are buried. Always nice to hear from you!
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I remember you writing about this last year!Seems like yesterday…love your altar, especially the Day of the Dead version of American Gothic.
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Yes, where does the time go? You are the only one who commented on the American Gothic couple! I found them in Progresso, Mexico when we visited a few months ago and could not resist buying them. Glad you liked and noticed them. And thanks for remembering last year! Take care!
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I love the Altar that you created. I have one in my house for all the loved ones that I have lost.
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Oh, thank you, Gerlinde, for sharing that you too have an altar. Death and loss connect us all!
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it’s a beautiful altar and very honouring. Thank you so much for sharing it and your words with us.
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And thank you for taking time to view it! Peace and joy to you.
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Jo Nell, I slipped quietly into your photograph. I stood just behind you as you lit the candles, and carefully placed the precious memories in front of the alter. I said my prayers at your alter and left a bit of my heart behind.
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You have a way of understanding and putting yourself into the scene, Virginia. Your heart and prayers are a welcome addition. I have a pair of my mother’s gloves (green) and one of her hand mirrors that I may add next year. You would approve of both, I think. You are welcome anytime in my photographs as you always can imagine a story. Hope all is well with you. Hugs!
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Jo Nell, I travel in my head, and imagine peole and places and what they are doing. I loved that your image was reflected in the mirror so I simply had to pop over and say prayers with you. XX Virginia
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Your very special and personal shrine is beautiful and moving Jo-Nell. I hope we never lose these ancient mysteries and rituals which connect us to the sacred and the unknown…
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Those words are special, coming from you! I can’t seem to believe in many of the religious beliefs I was taught growing up, but I do believe in the mystery – and unknown – that connect us all.
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A moving offering to loved ones, Jo Nell. There’s something sacred, mysterious and magical about this post. So many of us in western society have whitewashed (or eliminated) rituals for honouring and remembering those who’ve gone before. What you’ve done here is special. You’ve inspired me.
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Thank you, Cynthia! I borrowed from another culture but then we all feel that touch of death and missing loved one. And I wanted to honor that ritual in my own way. I am honored that you thought it was special when today many scoff at rituals. I appreciate your sharing your own thoughts!
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I’m big on rituals, Jo Nell, and more so as I get older.
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